The ministry is not affiliated with any one church or denomination.
CROSSFIRE is a Christian ministry which welcomes all single adults.
The ministry exists to provide social opportunities and spiritual growth.
The 3 Keys!
There are many ways that you can help our outreach to singles in the greater Harrisburg area. Below is a list of ways singles adults can consider as ways to reach out:
#1) PRAY: We have no ability to reach anyone, without the leading of our LORD Jesus Christ. If you are in agreement with this ministry please pray continually for our growth and influence on singles in this community.
#2) Promote: There are many ways to promote CROSSFIRE, the simplest is to allow us to put our brochure in your church's lobby, mention our activities in your announcements or allow our Director to come and speak for 5 to 10 minutes during a service about our ministry. And invite your single friends to attend events!
#3) Participate: Encourage the singles in your church to take part in CROSSFIRE activities, get your pastor to join our Pastor advisory board, recruit volunteers from your church to help lead events, or open your facilities for CROSSFIRE events.
Many Blessing to you,
Patti Gilbert, Interim Ministry Director
FAQ – Frequently asked Questions
In what age range are most of the people who attend?
Most participants are ages 40-60+. However, we have many younger people coming to CROSSFIRE. We are hosting events that will attract younger people and looking to expand our ministry to reach all ages. We continue to provide opportunities for the majority of our participants, so that we are meeting the needs of all those who come to the ministry.
Is there a membership fee?
No, we have never charged a membership fee. Our monthly newsletter is available by mail for free to all new participants for six months; after that we charge $15 per year. The newsletter is always posted on the website free for download anytime.
Where is the ministry located? Where do you meet?
Our office is in Colonial Park, in a house next-door to CrossPoint United Methodist Church. We rent our office from CrossPoint. But our meetings and events are held all over the greater Harrisburg area. We partner with about a dozen churches who host our events. We do sometimes host small events at our office. Directions to events are in the newsletter and posted on the website.
What are the office hours and how do I reach the leaders? (Who’s in charge?)
Most weeks, our office is open Fridays 8:30am-5:00pm. We don’t have a full-time staff. Our general email is info@cfire.org. Interim Director Patti Gilbert receives all the general emails and event sign-up forms. You can also reach Patti by email at pattigilbert@cfire.org or by calling the office 545-0005.
How do I find out what’s going on?
Is CROSSFIRE a good way to find someone to date and marry?
CROSSFIRE is not a dating service. While it is true that some people begin dating and even marry after meeting in CROSSFIRE, our goals are simply to provide a safe Christian atmosphere which promotes friendship, fellowship, shared interests and spiritual growth. If at any time anyone approaches you inappropriately, please contact a leadership team member immediately. We have established a written Code of Conduct, which is available via our website and at events.
How is the ministry supported?
Donations from participants account for the majority of our income. We receive donations from people who are “alumni” of the ministry, former leaders and also from several area churches on a regular basis. Donations in 2010 totaled about $16,000. We also receive income from the events we hold, such as dances and picnics. However, much of the event income goes to pay for event costs such as site rentals and supplies. Our overhead includes rent for the office space, payroll, copier lease, insurance, printing and mailing costs.
How do I sign up to attend events?
Many times, we will ask you to register for events! There are 3 ways to do that:
How can I volunteer to help with the ministry?
You are welcome to help with set-up, tear-down, greeting, and other things at our events. If you would consider being on the leadership team & helping to plan and host events, please speak with one of our leaders or board members. We also use volunteers at the office to help with administrative work.
How can I support the ministry?
If I have a complaint, a concern, or a suggestion, what should I do?
You may call the office and leave a message or send an email to info@cfire.org. You may speak directly with Patti Gilbert, or with any board member or leadership team member at an event. Please feel free to approach any CROSSFIRE leader for help or to express a concern.